=11 Making Teens To Manage

Whether it's old time erector sets, paper dolls, or robot construction, man's feeble attempts to build a man are truly laughable. Man really only learns how much more complex and wonderful our God-designed body made in His image, is.

The Teen Construction Begins

Once the teen's self-esteem has been emptied, God begins the beautiful character and spirit building process that has no substitutes or shortcuts. The Pruning portion of the Pits Process we discussed earlier, has a partner called Polishing. Polishing through challenges and hard work amid deepening dedication to the goal is how football teams are formed, groups of military soldiers 'get tough', and diamonds gain their luster and hardness too. What are some of the memorable polishing you've experienced in your life? Did this prepare you to better survive our enemy's attacks?

This portion, like all of the 'Soar' trio of our Teen Bridge, almost defies description in human language. God powerfully uses the third person of the Trinity – The Holy Spirit to lead in the teen's inside construction. Look at His qualifications in Ephesians 3:30... “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,”

according to the power that worketh in us” - that's the Holy Spirit.
If you work backwards, you'll see an escalating of adjectives, building to the skies. Try it. The Holy Spirit's abilities pertaining to our asking and thinking...all, above all, abundantly above all, and then exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think.

Next you want to see the paired words “exceeding abundantly”. Connected together, they are far more powerful than either could describe. Together they mean, “SUPER – SUPER ABUNDANTLY”. That's what God uses to carry youth through their Pits Process in preparation for their Crown and place of leadership, on this side of Glory and then eternal fellowship with Him and all the saints.

Teens must be reminded often, their own Pits Process experiences are all noticed and controlled by God and are His polishing process to make them shine, inside and outside, for Him. What are some polishing events God used on His beloved Israel? How could reviewing these events with teens, be ongoing reminders of God's love and desire for us to be our best – in Him... and for Him?

What was some of the Polishing that Joseph received in Potiphar's house and in the prison that gave him God-given managing experience toward his incredible position on the throne in Egypt?

Teens want to be leaders having the esteem of others following their instructions. This is really emphasized in the social networking's “Follow Me.” But God wants this all to be based on His will and His way. The painful part is, this takes dedication to goals, and yes, patience.

Invite a teen to help create a poster of the words of Jude 24. Then discuss with them its meaning – especially the EXCEEDING JOY.